IS THE FIRST IMPRESSION REALLY A LAST IMPRESSION???

Ye fiqra to sub ny ba kasrat suna ho ga k

“First impression is the last impression”

Ye jumla durust ha ya galat?gor krny pr pata chalta ha k first impression kisi k bary ma hamari apni soch  ha.Misal k tor pr agr hum kisi aisy shakhs ko dykhain jo hulye k aitabar sy maila kuchaila,safai suthrai sy aari or na shaista malom hota ho to aisy shakhs ko janana ya us sy milna hum pasand nh krain gy.lyken agr wohi shakhs saf suthra ho k hamary pas ay or hum sy dosti krny ka khahish mand ho to hum ak dafa us ki guzeshta na shaistagi k bary ma zoror sochain gy….

Is ley kaha jata ha k first impression is the last impression.

Lyken baz dafa aisa lagny lagta ha k first impression last impression nh hota qun ky  log badal jaty hn,waqt badal jata ha,soch badal jati ha,rujhanat badal jaty hain. Uper di gai missal ko he agy barhaty hn.Agr  hum us shakhs sy dosti kr lain or wo shakhs waqt quzarny k sath sath apni hygiene or bartao ko behter banany ki koshish krta ha. Apni galtioon ko over come krny ki koshish krta ha or apni is koshish ma kamyab ho jata ha to hamara  us shakhs k bary ma nazarya tabdeel ho jay ga or hum us ki pehly ki lagzishon,galtioon or na shaistagi ko yad nh rakhain gy.

Is ley ye kehna k first impression is the last impression sirf or sirf mubalaga arai  (exaggeration) ha.Qun ky jo galtian hum sy pehli dafa sar zad ho jati hn hum unhain sakht mehnat or lagan sy durust kr sakty hn.

ab  sawal ye baida hota ha k first impression etni ahmiat qun rakhta ha?Is ka jawab both sada or asan ha jab hun pehli bar kisi sy milty hn wo shakhs hamary bary ma kuch nh janta to wo pehli nazar ma hamari bahaeri shakhsiat sy humain judge krta ha.

 Pehli mulaqat k doran jis tarhan sy hum apni shakhsiat ko zaheer krty hn wo zaror log yad rakhty hn .Is ley zarori ha k logo sy milty hoy apny rakh rakhao or tarzy amal ka khayal rakhain.